Tired of the same old “How are you?” “Good, thanks” routine at networking events? You’re not alone, and today we’re breaking free from the small-talk spiral with the fabulous Julia Ewert. In this episode we explore the art of asking questions that actually matter.
First up, let’s tackle the small talk conundrum. Julia and I discussed how to move beyond the typical “How’s the weather?” chatter. Instead, try asking questions that invite more thoughtful responses. For example, “What’s something exciting you’re working on right now?” or “What was the highlight of your weekend?” These questions not only open the door to more engaging conversations but also help you connect on a deeper level.
Next, we ventured into the often awkward territory of budget discussions. Julia shared her secret to handling these conversations with grace: the power of the pause. When discussing numbers, it’s crucial to state your price confidently and then pause. This gives the other person space to process and respond, making the conversation feel less like a negotiation and more like a collaboration. Remember, silence can be your best friend in these moments!
Finally, we explored the importance of building genuine connections. Julia emphasized the value of those five to ten minutes of chit-chat before diving into business. Whether it’s sharing a laugh over a shared interest or discussing weekend plans, these moments lay the groundwork for trust and rapport. So next time you’re in a meeting, don’t skip the small talk, embrace it as an opportunity to connect.
Great conversations don’t just happen. We play an active role in our brand, credibility and warmth whether we’re at work or the grocery store. Try out these tips, and let me know how they transform your interactions into something memorable.
05:00 The magic of questions
15:00 From awkward to awesome networking
27:24 Good questions to ask to build credibility
29:27 What type of questions will get you a yes or no
38:45 How to be confident about your pricing
42:36 Kim’s script to use when narrowing down a budget
Julia’s LIL Courses:
Sales Skills for Non-Sales Professionals
How to Create and Ask Powerful Sales Questions
Connect with Julia on LinkedIn
Julia’s Book: Pitch to Profit
Outliers: The Story of Success by Malcolm Gladwell
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